Thursday, December 31, 2009

The Bratprince Goes to the Hospital

Well...I must say it has been an interesting end of the year for me.  I suffer from an autoimmune disease called Lupus.  Oddly, only about ten percent of the people with the disease are men.  However, the newsman Charles Kuralt died of Lupus.

I have had an earlier flair-up this year that put me in the hospital for a few days, but this one was a bit worse.

In the early morning hours of the 27th I began to have a bit of trouble breathing.  I called Gary and asked what to do.  Because we know how quickly these episodes come on, he told me to call an ambulance which I did.  By the time the ambulance got here, my breathing was so shallow that I don't remember anything else. 

I was taken to the critical care unit of Methodist Hospital where I had to be intubated (breathing tube) and they placed me in a medically induced coma for a day and a half thus I would not try to remove the tube.  If you have never been intubated, I don't recommend it.  However, it was that or die.  I could no longer breathe because much like pneumonia my lungs had filled with fluid.  The machine breathed for me for a day and a half...and then finally they were able to unhook me.  Going from an intubation to breathing on your own is a very scary process and it feels like you are suffocating for a few minutes.  However...fortunately I was able to breathe on my own (I still have a sore throat from the tube).  We were very lucky that the lack of oxygen did not affect my brain function or heart (although some would argue that I have never had either).

2 days in Critical Care was enough and they moved me into a very nice private room in the main hospital ward.  I must say I have never had so many needles sticking into me.  I had four different I.V. tubes and visitors were restricted.  Flowers were not allowed because of the pollen...although a few nice friends did send them and they were given to deserving patients on the ward.  I had a great nurse each day named Mark that kept me cheered up (he was sort of Jack from Will and Grace).  I have never watched so much bad t.v. in my life.

I wanted out days ago, but was just released this morning.  They thought I might have been able to go home last night, but wanted to make sure that I was fine, rested and recovered.  I feel great now and am thrilled to be home.

My lungs are clear and I have a new medication that should help prevent this from happening again.

So there you have it.  Even a Bratprince is vulnerable.  Thanks to all that sent me well wishes through FACEBOOK, etc.  My Blackberry didn't work in the hospital, but Gary would read the messages to me from home off the computer. 

Glad to see 2010!!!  Makes you think.  Life can be taken in an instant....but...I suppose I'm supposed to be here awhile longer because here I sit.  Happy New Year to all of my blog visitors and friends.  I'm most pleased to be here with you.


Yours, Bratprince

Extra Eye Candy because I have been away so long!!


Notable Deaths of 2009


As of a few days after Christmas one of them could have been me.  I'm blessed to be here.  More details on that later, but now just a tribute to those notables that have passed on this year.  Click here.

Photos of the Year from SPHERE


A great retrospective of the photos of 2009.  Click here.

Wow!!! I Had Not Even Looked.


Even while I was in the hospital, my "folks" kept coming back to the blog looking for me...thus we have well surpassed 22,000 visitors.  Thanks for the support!!!!  Keep coming back!

Ivana Trump Yanked Off Palm Beach Plane


I met this woman once.  It was not a glamorous setting.  I worked in a hotel where she stayed.  She stiffed the hotel on her bill and was a total...well...you know.  Click here.

Can You Get Wild Caspian Sea Caviar for New Year's Eve?


Ah, I remember the good old days of beluga.  Caviar is one of my very favorite delicacies.  My birthday is in February.  Click here.

Brangelina Donated $333,000 Instead of Adopting More Kids


Like or hate them, they do good deeds around the world.  Click here.

Crefeld Street, Estate of the Day


Another beauty.  Love this one.  Click here for more pics and info.

Versace Gown Deemed Red Carpet Dress Of The Decade


Don't know if I agree...I prefer Oscar....but...hey...it is a gorgeous gown.  Click here.

Eat Pizza on Your Fine China and Other New Year's Resolutions


I love glamorous New Year's Resolutions.  I'm pulling out the china.  Click here.

The Fashion Statement: What Will You Be Wearing in 2010?


You know me...I can never pass up a fashion post.  This is for the kind women that read the blog.  Click here.

Hillary Clinton Edges Sarah Palin as Most Admired Woman


Good God...who would even CONSIDER Sarah Palin??  Thank goodness this turned out the way it did.  Click here.

Meet Rosie O'Donnell's New Girlfriend


Definitely NOT her former gorgeous girl.  Ah well...maybe its love.

Home from the hospital

Sorry I have been gone so long...but been in the hospital.  Just got home.  Details forthcoming and more posts as the day goes along.  Glad to be back!!

Eye Candy of the Day


Saturday, December 26, 2009

Further Eye Candy of the Day


Christmas In My Family by Bratprince



Another wonderful Christmas gone by.  Because aside from my Aunt Donna and two cousins who are quite far away, I really have no family to speak of..unless you count my Dad and...well...let's not we spent it with Gary's family.

Gary's family has always been wonderful to me.  I am treated like a brother-in-law, an uncle, etc.  One of Gary's sisters threw our wedding shower and rehearsal dinner in San Diego when we got married a few years ago.

We did Christmas very differntly this year.  Everyone donated to charity and gave that as a gift to each other.  The kids got money...but the adults all donated.  We received lovely charitable donations to homeless shelters, soup kitchens and a Catholic nursing facility that took care of Gary's mother as she became sick and died.  Gary and I gave five ducks and two chickens to everyone.  Those ducks and chickens will keep a family in a far away village alive and even have the potential from breeding to help the whole village.  It was all very lovely.

We had a spledid meal at Gary's sisters and then all drove to our house and had dessert and opened gifts.  NEVER, EVER try to cook two pies and two cheesecakes in one day.  Christmas Eve. was an all day baking affair for me and I may never bake again.

Our house did look lovely and I am including a pic. of my Christmas table.  My rock crystal obelisks, that I got from a friend in Brazil were beautiful and looked like ice sculptures on the table. 

I hope you had as much fun as we did and your holiday was filled with love, joy, peace and visions of an optimistic future.

Gary and I are going to cheat a little and do a bit of after Christmas shopping on Wednesday.  He has his eye on a black Hugo Boss suit and I am after this fab. cashmere cardigan sweater I saw at Nordstroms.....ah well...you have to have a little something tangible.

Oh yes...and Astrid the internet kitty star...Karma the old grumpy cat...Paley the hyper "just past the puppy stage" and Roman...the absolutely ANCIENT white schnauzer all got gifts from Santa.

All my best, Bratprince.

What is Boxing Day?


Traditional English holiday extends Christmas giving....and it has nothing do to with Muhammad Ali.

How to Throw a Fabulous Party Any Time of the Year

Three Los Angeles style setters share their secrets for chic–and easy!–year-round entertaining.  Hate the flatware...looks like my everyday.....but....we will give the article a chance.


Michelle Obama's 9 Best Looks of 2009

See the First Lady's top outfits from a very historic--and fashionable--year!


Pick 2009's weirdest wonders


Vote for the weirdest happenings of 2009.  Click here.

Prince Sleeps on Streets - Wills & Carla Bruni Bring Attention to Plight


Pretty cool to bring attention to the plight of the homeless.  Way to go Madame First Lady and Your Highness.  Click here.

New Shirts Fight Floppy Collar Syndrome


All men face this from time to time.  Click here.

Deepwater, Estate of the Day


Maybe a bit "overdone", but gorgeous.  Click here for more.

Lunchtime Further Eye Candy of the Day


A Whale of a Controversy

Japan's dolphin-hunting industry gets skewered in The Cove, a just-released documentary by director Louie Psihoyos. But after this year's setbacks at the International Whaling Commission's annual meeting, dolphins aren't the only marine mammals that are in trouble.


The End of Influence


For as long as many can remember, the United States has been the country with money, influence, and power. But all that is changing, write Brad DeLong and Stephen Cohen in their new book, The End of Influence.  Click here.

Regifting Gift Cards to Those in Need


What a great idea for those gift cards to stores you never shop in.  Click here.

Could a GAY Sports Superstar Be On the Way?



Last week, one of rugby’s biggest stars came out of the closet. Could an American athlete be far behind? Alex Massie on sports’ first gay superstar

Pentagon Dreams of Flying Car


Let's see what we can spend another 100 billion on.  Click here.

The Addiction Habit

Do we really need rehab centers for people who spend too much time shopping or using the Internet?  Click here.


Tech Endorsements


Favorite apps, games, and gizmos of the year.  Click here.  From Bratprine:  My Kindle is one of my absolute favorite things!

Saying No to Obama

The U.S. president is popular, but world leaders are finding it easy to defy his wishes.  Click here.


THE TOP EDITORIAL CARTOONS OF THE YEAR!


Lots of fun...and poignant...click here.

The 50 Best Movies of 2009


A different critics list of the top 50 movies of 2009.  Click here and see if you agree.

Lady Gaga, Jon Gosselin Top List of Overexposed Stars


I vote we get rid of Miley Cyrus.  She is so last year and needs to be turned over to the scrap heap of child stars that end up on Maury Povitch.

Daily Reminder to Support Legacy Counseling Center and Founders Cottage at this VERY fun event.


'Nurse Jackie' Drops Haaz Sleiman


This sucks.  I really liked this character.  There goes yet another gay character on t.v.  Click here.

Top 10 Most Overrated Movies of 2009



Just 10?  I'll bet I can name more.  Besides, I thought a couple of these were pretty good.

Eye Candy of the Day


Antelope Run Ranch, Estate of the Day


I wouldn't mind a Wyoming ranch.  Click here for info. and more pics.

Photos: Unforgettable Celebrity Images of the Decade


An interesting retrospective of the decade of celebrity.  Click here.

Best One-Hit Wonders of the Decade


Haven't thought about some of these folks in ages.  Click here.